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Event: On a Tuesday afternoon, I watched a couple in their mid-twenties kiss on a park bench. A playful, passionate kiss. After they finished, the woman got up first, pulled the man by the hand up from the bench, and led him running across the street between cars to a café. They were both laughing, the woman turning back smiling at the man.
Within the moment of the kiss, the futures of their lives shifted slightly… The man asks: “How do I create in the world? How much can I acquire? How much of this woman’s creative force can I take as my own power?”
The woman asks: “How do I control my surroundings so I can be safe? What is my potential as a person? How long can I control him through withholding what he wants?”
Their spiritual agreement: Emotionally, they are attracted to each other’s questions about personal power and how to find and express it. The eternal, energetic parts of them, are seeking the limitlessness of their spiritual energy.
Karma: Both of them are in a state of innocent learning. They are exploring themselves. Although they are consciously thinking about how to control the other, they won’t be bound to each other because of their actions. However, if one of them decides their life will be easier if they just figure out how to control the other rather than learn about themselves (which generates life force and creative power), that person will stop growing. At that point, they will need to take from others the life force they have chosen to not give themselves.
The man’s spiritual choices: He has posed the same question about power in every other part of his life. In each part, he plays a different role to find his understanding and truth about the question. How much he lets himself learn without self-judgment will influence whether or not he chooses to find his limitlessness through acquiring the energy of others or finding it within himself.
Many men are in a similar stage of awareness. What this man does will affect others in their growth concerning the same questions.
The woman’s spiritual choices: Her question, “Who am I?” has bumped into the self-negating image built during her childhood relationship with her father figure. In this kiss also, she is exploring the “Who am I?” question. And, she plans on creating more experiences that will offer opportunities to create a self-image that more closely matches who she is as spirit.
What she perceives as a fantasy self-image vision of herself is actually a communication from her spiritual/energetic self to her conscious/material self. As spirit, she is telling her conscious self, “you are more than what others have told you.” Her spiritual goal is to continue finding ways to let more of her eternal self into her material life. Much will depend upon whether or not she will chose to heed the spiritual communication to her physical self.
Her determination creates a vibration that will resonate with others. Who in turn can choose to use that wave to take them to their next step in their self-exploration. [ Back ] |
